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It all started more than 20 years ago with Santa Claus -- Santa Claus and the Sears Wishbook and a mother's desire to wrap her children in Christmas gifts.This month it ended with Sherry, 47, sitting in a counselor's office surrounded by credit-card bills and telephone bills and insurance statements and paycheck records that all pointed to one indisputable fact -- Sherry and her husband couldn't pay their bills.By the time Sherry arrived at the Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Maryland's Catonsville headquarters, she and her husband owed $12,000 in consumer debt -- a third of their $36,000 annual income.

Cedric Payne's visits to the state mental hospital where his father, Calvin, was involuntarily committed after beating his wife with a hammer last May follow a similar pattern: the elder Payne experiencing fleeting moments of focus followed by long periods of confusion. As a result, Cedric, the only child of the Columbia couple, said that his 84-year-old father is where he should be, but that his 81-year-old mother, Alma, still fears for her life. "She thinks that if he can get out, he'll come back and complete the job," Cedric Payne said in a telephone interview last week.

On May 10, 2007, at his home, JOSEPH ALAN CLISE; beloved husband of Virginia Bevard Clise of 58 years; devoted father of Alan Clise, Roger Clise, Brian Clise, Ann-Margaret and her husband Brian Knauff; grandfather of Liston, Keyra, Bridget, and Blair Clise, Lauren, Brian Jr., and Brandon Knauff. Brother of Mary and her husband Carl Noble, and Kent Clise. Preceded in death by brother James O. Clise. He is also survived by ten nephews and one niece. Private memorial service.

Paule Simone Ingberg, who endured the Nazi occupation of her native France before moving to this country, died Thursday of complications from Alzheimer's disease at the Gilchrist Hospice Center in Towson. She was 86. Paule Vallet spent her childhood in Paris singing with a chorus, sampling perfume in fine shops and playing bridge with adults. "When she was 7 or 8 years old, her favorite bridge partner was a judge," said a daughter, Suzanne Hoffman of Ellicott City. During World War II, her brother was a member of the French Resistance and her sister was jailed for shouting at the screen during a newsreel about Adolf Hitler.

MARYLAND Shooting shocks community Grieving family members and neighbors of a Southwest Baltimore woman who police say was shot to death by her husband - a veteran correctional officer - remained shocked yesterday evening, questioning how her four sons will survive without her. Police said Cynthia Webb, 42, was shot multiple times during a dispute with her husband. pg 1B WORLD Hamas to pay ousted workers The Hamas government in the Gaza Strip will begin paying thousands of civil servants cut from the payroll of its rival, Fatah, officials said yesterday, further entrenching the divisions between the two Palestinian factions.

On August 26, 2007, ANTHONY F. AQUILANO. He was the beloved husband of Eunice Aquilano. Son of Anthony F. and Carrie Aquilano of Baltimore. Father of Gloria Henderson of Reisterstown, Judy Peterson and her husband Frank of Hampstead, and adopted daughter Nancy Shanahan and her husband Guy of Inglis, Fla. Grandfather of Lisa Henderson, Jennifer Brown and her husband David, David Peterson, and Shawn Shanahan. Proud Great Grandfather of Christopher Brown. Brother of the late Danny Aquilano, the late Catherine Stallings, Val Aquilano, John Aquilano, and Rita German.

On January 24, 2007, WILLIAM FRANKLIN FIELDS; devoted father of Jennifer A. Fields; loving son of Ellen M. (nee Dunbar) and the late James F. Fields; dear brother of Carol Jacobs and her husband John, Nancy Brannock and her husband William, George Fields, Laura Burton and her husband Stewart and the late James C. Fields. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. A funeral service will be held at the family owned Duda-Ruck Funeral Home of Dundalk, Inc., 7922 Wise Avenue on Saturday at 10 A.M. Interment Oak Lawn Cemetery.

On February 16, 2007, CHARLES R. SR., beloved husband of the late Shirley E. Hoopert (nee Miller) devoted father of Diane Kretzschmar and her husband Bob, Bob Hoopert Jr, and his wife Cheryl, Patricia Robl and her husband Jeffrey, also survived by eleven grandchildren, dear brother of Russell Hoopert and loving companion of Charlotte Griner. Relatives and friends are invited to call at the SCHIMUNEK FUNERAL HOME INC., 9705 Belair Road, (at Forge Road) on Tuesday 7 to 9 P.M. and Wednesday 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 P.M. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at the St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Fullerton on Thursday at 11 A.M. Interment in St. Joseph's Cemetery.

On October 25, 2007 Eileen T. Sheets (nee Trott), beloved wife of the late Milo Wesley Sheets; caring mother of Janet Hartlove and her husband Charles, Nancy Boellner and her husband Ron; grandmother of Christine Hartlove and her husband Stan Pickell, Jennifer McClellan and her husband Chris and Ron Boellner, Jr; great-grandmother of Ayden McClellan. Friends may call at the famliy owned Ruck Towson Funeral Home Inc, 1050 York Road, (beltway exit 26) on Friday from 6-9 pm. A Graveside Service will be held in the Miranda Cemetery, Huntingtown, Maryland on Saturday at 11 AM. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.

On January 7, 2007 LAWRENCE A. FLAGLER of Bel Air, MD. Beloved husband of Marian S. Flagler. Devoted father of Larry Flagler, Katrina Chadwick and husband Mark, Laura Smith and husband Owen. Loving brother of Phyllis Grotz, Jeanne Lazor and husband Mike, and Sally Craig and husband Bill. Also survived by three stepsons, Michael Boyle, Jr. and wife Erin, Patrick Boyle and Gregory Boyle; five grandchildren, Madison Chadwick, Alex Chadwick, Jordan Flagler, Hannah Smith, Margo Smith; and one step-granddaughter, Kinley Boyle.

On October 28, 2009, DAVID L. GILLOTTI, age 48; beloved husband of Anni P. Gillotti (nee Winkler); devoted father of Rachel and Kinsey Gillotti and two step children, Kelsey and Cheyne Williason. He is also survived by his father, Donald M. Gillotti and wife Nancy; sister, Donna S. Coleman and her husband William; brother, Michael K. Gillotti and two step sisters, Amy Price and her husband Allen and Jennifer Webster and her husband Steven; five nephews and two nieces. He was preceded in death by his mother, Lorice K. Gillotti (nee Kiser)

On October 27, 2009, John M. MOORE, Jr.; beloved husband of the late Sally D. Moore; devoted father of J. Marks Moore, III and his wife Leslie R., and Melissa M. Moore and her husband Alfred L. Scanlan; dear stepfather of Michael D. Glidden and his wife Donna; loving grandfather of Lindsay B. and Virginia M. Moore, William P. and Maura A. Hallwig, and Michael Glidden. Services to be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 1850 York Road, Suite D, Timonium, MD 21093.

On October 18, 2009 JOSEPH A. KOLODZIEJSKI; beloved husband of Karen A. (nee Kordonski); devoted father of Tammy Flowers and her husband Ed, Tonya Kalterbach and her husband Jamie; dear brother of Ken Kolodziejski; loving grandfather of Andrew and Kate Flowers. Funeral services will be held at the family owned Duda-Ruck Funeral Home of Dundalk, Inc., 7922 Wise Avenue on Friday at 10 a.m. Interment Glen Haven Cemetery. Friends may call Wednesday 7 to 9 P.M., Thursday 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 P.M. www.ruckfu

On October 2, 2009, of Parkville, MD. Beloved wife of the late James Vincent Guthrie Sr. Devoted mother of John F. Guthrie and wife, Patty, Kathleen M. Swentzel and husband, Clark, Patricia M. Ruane and husband, Peter, Claire B. Howard, Theresa M. Thomas and husband, Dennis, GiGi A. Kurowski and husband, Tom, and the late James V. Guthrie Jr. and his surviving wife, Beth. Also survived by 22 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Ignatius Catholic Church, Forest Hill, MD on Tuesday, October 6, 2009 at 11 a.m. Interment will be in the adjoining church cemetery.

MYRTLE IRENE (TECHENTINE) PIERCE of Baltimore passed away at Gilchrist Hospice Care on September 21, 2009. She was 86 years old. She was preceded in death by her husband Zan Pierce, brother George Techentine and sisters Grace Paone and Marge Orlando. She is survived by daughter Cheryl Bankard and husband Leon of Baltimore, son Lee Pierce of Fallston and granddaughter Sherie Claybrook and husband Jason of Richmond, VA and two great-grandchildren Dylan and Caroline. Also surviving are her sisters Helen Seitz and husband Charles of Baltimore, Dorothy McCabe of Sharon, PA, Rose Kadelock of Philadelphia, PA, Darlene Griffith and husband Ralph of Hershey, PA and brother Paul Techentine of Mahanoy City, PA and numerous nieces and nephews.

On September 13, 2009 of Glen Burnie beloved husband the late Frances V. Koontz (nee Kenney) and devoted father of Kimberly I. Levin and her husband Barry, Bonnie R. Aardrup and her husband Anton "Skip" Aardrup, Sheila R., Kathy L. and Donnie M. Koontz. Dear brother of Matilda Tremper. Also survived by six grandchildren and one great-granddaughter. Friends may call at the family owned Kirkley-Ruddick Funeral Home, P.A., 421 Crain Highway, S.E., Glen Burnie on Tuesday and Wednesday from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 P.M. Services will be held on Thursday at 11:00 A.M. in Glen Lutheran Church.

On September 5, 2009, DOUGLAS L. WINK; beloved husband of Doris Wink; loving father of Douglas Wink, Jr. and his wife Dory, Judith Libert, Ann Coburn and her husband Carl, Bonnie Adams and her husband Marshall; dear brother of Leon Wink and the late Mary Powers, Shirley Bealfeald, Olivia Knickman, Paul, Andrew Jr., Harry and Calvin Wink. Also survived by six grandchildren and one great granddaughter. Friends may call at the family owned David J. Weber Funeral Homes P.A., 5311 Edmondson Avenue on Thursday from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 PM. Funeral services will be held on Friday beginning at 10 AM at the funeral home.

On September 5, 2009, DOUGLAS L. WINK; beloved husband of Doris Wink; loving father of Douglas Wink, Jr. and his wife Dory, Judith Libert, Ann Coburn and her husband Carl, Bonnie Adams and her husband Marshall; dear brother of Leon Wink and the late Mary Powers, Shirley Bealfeald, Olivia Knickman, Paul, Andrew Jr., Harry and Calvin Wink. Also survived by six grandchildren and one great granddaughter. Friends may call at the family owned David J. Weber Funeral Homes P.A., 5311 Edmondson Avenue on Thursday from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 PM. Funeral services will be held on Friday beginning at 10 AM at the funeral home.

On August 18, 2009 TIMOTHY B. "SKEETER" WRIGHT, SR., beloved husband of Brenda S. Wright, loving father of Timothy B. "TJ" Wright, Jr., devoted son of Janice and William Sipes; loving brother of Michael and wife Theresa, Terry and husband Bill and Tracy and husband Steven; cherished uncle of Samantha, Justin, Zachary, Bradley, Steven, Jr. and Katelyn. Also survived by loving family members and friends. Services entrusted to the family owned AMBROSE FUNERAL HOME, INC., 1328 Sulphur Spring Road, Arbutus, MD 21227.

On July 6, 2009, MARY E. LAWRENCE ALLEN (nee Wright); beloved mother of Dorothy Falls and her husband Albert, William Lawrence and his wife Lois, Jessie Meninger and her husband Louie, Joseph Edward Lawrence and his wife Diane, and JoAnne Zielinski and her husband Richard. Lovingly known as "Nan", she leaves behind 18 grandchildren, 33 great grandchildren, and two great great-grandchildren. Also surviving are three of her nine siblings, Anna Most, Mabel Krebs, and Wilbur Wright. Her husbands, William A. Lawrence and William R. Allen predeceased her. A Memorial Service will be held at the Perry Hall United Methodist Church, 9515 Belair Road on Saturday, August 22, 2009 at 10 AM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her name to the Edgemere Senior Center, 6600 North Point Road, Baltimore, MD 21219.