Everywhere in her Cross Keys townhouse, elements of the tablescape are repeated: The tassels that serve as napkin holders can be found on chair cushions, doorknobs and at the center of her mantel display. Roses, carnations and ribbon pop up in the living room. Topiaries — miniature versions of the pair in the tablescape — are placeholders.
But then, there are the tiny moose on the table. Wearing fur collars.
"There is a fun side of me, too," said Berman, smiling.
Use rentals Unless you love your table legs or your rug, rent a floor-length tablecloth — and perhaps seat cushions, too, Anne Marie Berman says.
Repurpose items Sascha Wolhandler lets oversized napkins stand in as runners. They give the table a feeling of luxury, she says, although she picked them up at a hotel sale for $1 each.
Sparkle and shine Use plenty of glasses, says Wolhandler, because they sparkle so beautifully in candlelight. And they don't have to match, either.
Set your table early So you can add to it, says Wolhandler. She picked up a pair of interesting loaves of bread to add to hers. In the summer, she might add corn, blueberries, peaches or cheese.
Be table-ready Look for table elements at garage sales, thrift shops, estate sales and antiques shops. Whenever you see spools of luxurious ribbon on sale, snap it up, says Berman.
Go for the charge Chargers in metallic or holiday colors will pull your table together. Don't have chargers? Simply use a larger dinner plate.
Plates Stock up on at least a dozen white dinner plates and a dozen white salad plates, says Kevin Sharkey, Martha Stewart Living's executive editorial director for decorating. Two dozen, if you can swing it. "That way no one will feel like the 13th person with the odd plate who probably shouldn't be here." White dinner plates show off food best, say our experts, while dessert plates are a good place to toy with color.
Flatware "Flatware is more fun when it doesn't match," says Sharkey. Unearth your various inherited sets, bring on the fancy wedding gift sets and pair it all with a few sale sets from a discount store. (It doesn't have to hold up to everyday wear and tear, so don't fret too much over the quality of your add-on sets.)
Glasses "Find a glass that's all-purpose and inexpensive that you can use over and over and over," says Jen Aaronson, Martha Stewart Living's editorial director of food and entertaining, who prefers something without a stem that works for wine, cocktails and water. If you're hosting a larger-than-usual shindig, consider renting your glassware. "I tend to rent mine when I'm having large cocktail parties," says Sharkey.
Linens Keep at least two dozen cloth napkins on hand, says Sharkey, who is partial to linen, unless you're hosting more than two dozen guests, in which case he recommends paper napkins. "For me it's a luxury," he says. Napkins are a natural place to play with color and various prints, but Aaronson extols the virtue of white here as well. "White's going to go with any tablecloth or place mats, and even if you have different kinds — some cotton, some linen, some embroidered — all-white lets you mix and match them."