Claire Carton is pretty sure her husband owns "every video game known to man" and that they're all named the same thing: Guns of War.
Not surprisingly, one of the few games Carton likes herself, her husband can't get into.
"What's the point of the Sims game?" he's always asking.
"To have the nicest house," she says, to which he concludes: "That's so stupid."
Gender disparity, it's easy to see, is alive and well in the video game world, evident in every explosion, every bloodletting, every bosomy sidekick.
"The games my husband plays have these incredible narratives but the main character is always a muscular guy with a hot babe walking around to help out," says Carton, a vice president at the Baltimore communications firm idfive. "They do a horrible job in designing and marketing games toward women. They think we're a lost cause."
Not everyone. Not anymore. Some gaming companies think women are a huge opportunity, a chance for what's already a multibillion-dollar industry to get at the 50 percent of the population it's been missing.
That's why Nintendo is offering its hand-held version in pink.
That's why Gamestop is promoting the latest version of the Madden NFL football game with a "Girls Night In" Web page.
That's why fashionistas shopping for designer purses at the online handbag rental company featured in Sex and the City are being offered game rentals when they order certain purses.
All steps in the right direction, but long overdue, says Deb Tillett, a technology consultant and former president of Hunt Valley's BreakAway Games, who is one of the few women in the gaming business.
Women won't find games appealing until women are helping make them, she says.
"What's out there now and what sells are hard-core games for guys," she says. "Women do buy and will buy games but it's all about the content."
The Entertainment Software Association, an advocacy organization for the video game industry, spends a lot of time trying to clear up the misconception that video games are for lonely teenage boys to play in their parents' dimly lit basements.
The association proudly points out that 40 percent of game players are women. But that statistic includes all games - computer solitaire, games included on cell phones and BlackBerries.
When it comes to the serious console games - Nintendo, PlayStation and Xbox - women certainly play, but the majority of players are men and children.
