Reining in student behavior at graduationsLast year, I...

Letters

May 31, 1998

Reining in student behavior at graduations

Last year, I attended one of the Howard County high school graduation ceremonies at Merriweather Post Pavilion. Throughout the ceremony students in the audience yelled out the names of students who were graduating.

Some graduating seniors, who were sitting on the stage, blew up a beach ball and tossed it around the stage, while their guest speaker was talking.

None of the administrators on the stage did anything. This was not an isolated incident. Howard County schools' graduation ceremonies have become sporting events and lack the dignity that should be associated with graduation from high school.

School board members should do several things to stop this kind of behavior at graduation ceremonies. They should hire extra security guards and give them instructions to remove people who yell out names of graduating seniors.

School board members should instruct administrators to remove graduating seniors who disrupt the ceremony so they cannot receive their diploma on stage with their peers. They can get their diplomas after the ceremony. Doing nothing allows students to believe that what they are doing is acceptable. It is not.

If students, on stage and off, cannot follow common rules of courtesy at a high school graduation, the ceremonies should be moved back to the auditorium of each school. It is true that students will not get as many tickets, but that would be better than making graduation ceremonies into sporting events.

Laura Waters

Columbia

The writer is a candidate for the Howard County Board of Education.

Pets are often source of hope for victims

Forty years ago, I grew up in a home of domestic violence. I know firsthand that violence is directed toward animals in these homes.

It was not uncommon for my father to "throw" my beagle puppy out in 3 feet of snow. Later I learned that one of our dogs had been fatally shot.

I think it is great that police want to recruit volunteers to temporarily adopt pets so victims can leave their troubled homes and go to shelters and not have to worry about what is happening to their pet at home.

The state official who said a network of safe cages is not a priority did the right thing to remain anonymous. He or she has very little knowledge about domestic violence, and the bond that develops between a pet and child growing up in a violent household.

For instance, sometimes families are unwilling to leave their home for fear of retaliation toward their pet. These are pets that have loved them unconditionally throughout the turmoil in their lives.

Children often develop a very close relationship with their pets, especially in a home of violence. Children trying to cope with the difficult trauma at home sometimes withdraw from the world in search of a healing place.

Pets often are the source of safety, healing and peace for a child growing up in a home of violence. Kids are often too embarrassed to talk with others about growing up in a home of domestic violence.

Pets offer a place of inner healing that no one knows. And pets need to be protected from a home of violence as well.

To the state official who chose to remain anonymous, shame on you.

Ruth Dumont

Columbia

Tuition plan can open doors for families

As prime sponsor of the bill to establish Maryland's Prepaid College Trust, it has been extremely gratifying to me to see the program begin its first year.

The program offers parents a way to put aside money, protected from taxation, to pay for their children's future college education at current tuition rates.

Edwin Crawford, chairman of the Maryland Prepaid College Trust, described the program accurately as "a thrift-based program, designed to get rid of dependency on debt when your child goes to college." Steven Norwitz, vice president of T. Rowe Price, said these state-operated plans "are a great insurance policy for a lot of people."

The program offers three flexible payment plans. Any parent, relative, friend or business can enter into a contract to pay in one lump sum, or in 60 payments spread over five years, or in extended monthly payments until the child's senior year in high school. The payments may apply to a four-year university education, two years at a community college or a combination of the two.

For example, the benefactor of a child in the fourth grade can pay the average four-year tuition of $16,483 this year, $328 a month for five years or $209 a month until the August before the child is a senior in high school. The community college plan costs $4,293.

The rates will go up every year, based on the average increase in tuition and mandatory fees, which are collectively growing at about 7.5 percent a year.

For those who choose to attend private colleges or leave Maryland, the plan pays tuition and fees up to the average amount charged at a Maryland institution. Applications are being accepted for this year's rates through June 30. To receive an application, call 888-4MD-GRAD or print an application from the Web site www.prepaid.usmd.edu.

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