Mental health on the Web Internet: Whether you call it psychotherapy or not, counseling by e-mail is flourishing.

September 09, 1997|By Liz Stevens | Liz Stevens,FORT WORTH STAR-TELEGRAM

Bad day at the office? Spouse acting unresponsive? Generally feeling bummed? Help is just an e-mail away.

As the Internet becomes an increasingly popular venue for advice-wielding therapists, Web counseling has emerged as one of the hottest debates in psychotherapy.

The dozens of individuals plying their trade online say e-mail counseling is not only convenient and affordable but, for some dTC people, also more conducive to free expression. Skeptics call it an oxymoron.

"You can tell a lot of stuff from someone's voice," notes Dr. Douglas Weiss, owner of the Fort Worth Heart to Heart clinic for sexual addiction. "Whereas if you just wrote me an e-mail, I wouldn't know if you were 50 or 21. It robs you of a large part of that intuitive, interactive part."

Online counselors offer a virtual ear to individuals suffering everything from low self-esteem and sexual addictions to eating disorders and anxiety. They claim professional, confidential and comparatively low-cost treatment, as close as the nearest computer terminal.

Think "modem-as-sofa" and get comfortable.

"Nobody's grandmother will be surprised by the fact that you can create a lot of intimacy through writing letters," says Lawrence Murphy, co-founder of Therapy Online, based in Canada. "All of the clients have been impressed with the connections they've been able to make" with their Web counselor, he adds.

Murphy and partner Dan Mitchell opened their online office two years ago, marrying interests in computers and counseling. They also saw a need not being met.

"There are a lot of people who find it difficult to come into an office and sit in front of another person and disclose their problems," Murphy explains. People in small towns might not have easy access to a therapist. Worse still, the local psychologist might be a relative. And clients who move around a lot don't want to tell their stories to five different psychologists.

With online counseling, "You never miss an appointment," Murphy says, "you don't have to get a baby sitter, you don't have to take an hour off work, you don't have to wait until the appointment to talk about what happened."

The Internet supports about 50 online advice givers, says Dr. John Grohol, director of Mental Health Net. Most of them appropriately refer to themselves as counselors, he says, not therapists.

"Counseling is looked at more as helping the person to determine what the best course of action might be, and it deals generally with much simpler problems," Grohol says. "To actually say that you're doing psychotherapy online is taking a big leap in terms of what has been traditionally known as psychotherapy."

The ethics code of the American Psychological Association states that productive therapy requires a "professional relationship" between psychologist and client. That, says Dr. Stuart Tentoni, coordinator for the Norris Health Center at the University of Wisconsin at Madison, would be extremely difficult to develop without face-to-face contact.

But even Grohol, who studies online behavior and leads mental-health chats on the Internet three times a week, acknowledges the appeal of Web counseling.

"[Online] relationships are very real, and they're just as intense and just as important as they are in the real world," he says. "Whether it's therapy or not, I don't know."

One of the biggest concerns surrounding online therapy is fraud. "The most obvious drawback is you don't know who the heck you're talking to and what their qualifications are," Grohol says. "You could be sending 20 bucks to a 14-year-old kid."

Most Web counselors accept payment by credit card (some accept checks). Fees on average run $20 to $30 per half-hour, compared with $40 to $45 in an office (or around $75 for 50 minutes).

Confidentiality is another major issue. Some counselors will offer an encryption program, but otherwise there is little guarantee that a private e-mail won't fall into the wrong hands. Emergencies also pose a problem for online clients and providers. How does a counselor in Texas help a suddenly suicidal patient in Michigan? Murphy in Saskatchewan and counselor Jeanne Rust in Tucson, Ariz., carefully screen potential clients and will not accept those with severe mental disorders.

Neither will counsel individuals primarily dealing with sexual abuse, for instance, or domestic violence. "I would not be at all comfortable writing to an abused woman whose husband can access her e-mail," Murphy says.

Three months ago, Grohol's Mental Health Net began certifying online therapists. The nonprofit organization will verify the identity and credentials of any counselor who asks (the cost is $19.95) and then give its seal of approval to the site. About 15 therapists, including Rust, have signed up so far.

"I don't think anyone is suggesting this replace traditional therapy," says Rust, an eating-disorders counselor who uses her Web site mainly to disseminate information. "In my mind, it's for people who can't do it otherwise."

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