DEBORAH Armenti and I worked in the same data processing unit at USF&G, both of us as technical writers.
I met her early in 1988, not long after I had started working at USF&G and only shortly after my first daughter, Anna, was born.
One of my concerns at that time had been finding a reliable day care provider. My wife had recently gone back to work after 12 weeks of maternity leave, and we were not able to find somebody we could trust to care for the baby while we were at our jobs. After two distressing situations with sitters who lasted only a few weeks each, Deborah told me of a lady in her neighborhood with whom she left her own children -- then 3 and 6 years old -- and provided an introduction for us.