Lessons teach little girls early to like the size and shape they are BODY LANGUAGE

February 04, 1992|By Phyllis Brill

When Mary Pabst visits a Towson classroom as a guest speaker this week, she'll be talking about self-esteem and positive body image -- not unusual subjects in a discussion designed to deter students from eating disorders like anorexia nervosa and bulimia.

But in this case, the students she'll be lecturing are preschoolers.

"We know now that the seeds for dissatisfaction, dieting and a drive for thinness are planted in the very young child," says Ms. Pabst, president of the Maryland Association for Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia. Very often the eating disorders that reveal themselves in a teen-age girl have been growing quietly and steadily for years, she says.

A psychiatric social worker at Sheppard Pratt Hospital, Ms. Pabst routinely counsels young women -- and the the overwhelming majority of people with eating disorders are female -- with emotional and physical problems related to abusive eating habits. Anorexia nervosa -- characterized by self-starvation and excessive weight loss -- and bulimia nervosa -- a secretive cycle of binge eating followed by purging -- are the most critical eating disorders because of their life-threatening consequences. But lesser conditions arising from chronic dieting, compulsive overeating and obsessive behavior related to weight control also have become common.

Ms. Pabst is a founding member of Eating Disorders Awareness and Prevention, Inc., a four-year-old national, non-profit organization concerned with the growing number of problems associated with Americans' preoccupation with food, weight and striving for thinness. This week, the group is sponsoring Eating Disorders Awareness Week by targeting young children and their mothers, in particular, in a nationwide effort aimed at prevention.

Through a series of grass-roots efforts in 33 states, EDAP members are going into their communities this week -- to parent groups, schools, birthing classes, hospital groups and anywhere else that they can reach mothers of the very young or the youngsters themselves. Their message in essence: It's what's inside a person that counts, not what he or she looks like on the outside.

Ms. Pabst will visit her son's class of 4- to 6-year-olds at the Montessori School of Central Maryland in Towson on Thursday. There she'll talk informally with the kids about the variety of body shapes and sizes they see when they look at themselves and their friends. She'll remind them that their body sizes "have nothing to do with being good, smart or a valuable person," and distribute a fact sheet and letter to be taken home to their parents.

In Carlsbad, Calif., EDAP's president-elect Lindsey Hall Cohn, the mother of two and a former bulimic herself, will be visiting a local parent-toddler class. She's hoping to get to young mothers before they can pass on to their kids attitudes that encourage self-denial rather than self-esteem.

In Florida's Dade County, Paula Levine, a psychologist specializing in eating disorders and vice president of EDAP, has lined up visits with a couple hospital support groups for expectant parents. And she'll be attending PTA meetings to talk to parents of children in kindergarten through third grade.

"This is a way to get directly to families of young children," says Dr. Levine, who is director of the Anorexia and Bulimia Resource Center in Coral Gables, Fla., and a staff member of the nearby Renfrew Center, an in-patient facility devoted exclusively to women with eating disorders.

"Everyone today wants to raise kids with a healthy self-esteem. But you can't have positive self-esteem with a negative body image. And the kid who doesn't like herself at age 4 or 5 is already dieting by age 8 or 9," says Dr. Levine, whose clients include adolescents and pre-adolescents who have abused themselves to the point of needing hospitalization as well as counseling.

Dr. Levine, who emphasizes that no two eating disorder cases are alike, says there are variety of conditions that predispose a girl to anorexia or bulimia. There is often an underlying psychological need that's being addressed with food; but biological and genetic factors, social conditions and family background also play a part.

And the surrounding culture, with its unrelenting emphasis on the "perfect body," feeds their obsession.

"They are getting it from dieting and exercise-conscious families, from advertising, from Barbie dolls, from TV . . ." says Dr. Levine. "This stuff is not subliminal. It's all right out there in front of them."

While there might seem to be an inherent danger in introducing discussions related to eating disorders with children in the primary grades, those who have counseled victims of the illnesses say the risks of not talking are greater. Research, they say, supports their fears that young minds are fertile ground for weight-consciousness to thrive.

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